maygra: (annoyed fangirl)
maygra ([personal profile] maygra) wrote2008-04-19 10:57 pm

Fandom is just determined to annoy me this week.

It is entirely possible to respect a person's right to their opinion and not respect a particular opinion. It's also possible to disagree with another person's opinion and still respect the person.

It is nearly impossible to respect a person whose opinion includes the view that anyone who disagrees with their opinion deserves no respect, and furthermore, because their views differ, are morally bankrupt, ethically void, and possibly the root of all evil.

And seriously? People who write (or read) incest are no more likely to be advocating for it in real life than people who write (or read) h/c kidfic are advocating for child abuse.

[identity profile] raynedanser.livejournal.com 2008-04-20 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
If you had, she only would have deleted you. Apparently, they were disappearing mysteriously before she disabled comments. (you being generic in this case)
Edited 2008-04-20 13:44 (UTC)

[identity profile] maygra.livejournal.com 2008-04-20 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I saw that. I don't actually disagree with an individual blogger/journaler deleting trolling or outright attacks, but disagreement is not automatically either of those things.

I think it bugs me more because my prior impression of her was not that she's an idiot. This, however, has vastly altered my opinion of pretty much everything she says or writes and not for the better.

But I'm not nor ever was on her friends list, and I've no doubt she's perfectly happy having me far, far away, lest I persuade her to the dark side.

[identity profile] raynedanser.livejournal.com 2008-04-20 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
disagreement is not automatically either of those things.

Exactly. She was cutting off even the possibility of discussion by doing so. Then again, she probably didn't want anyone that actually read the offensive material dirtying her journal.

I think it bugs me more because my prior impression of her was not that she's an idiot.

I've never even heard of her before, but her post left dirty taste in my mouth and certainly doesn't make me want to seek out other posts of hers.

I've no doubt she's perfectly happy having me far, far away, lest I persuade her to the dark side.

But we have cookies there!!! Shiny, penis shaped cookies!